《我们的生活》前情提要 Previously on This Is Us...
我以为你不会来了 我 When I thought you weren't coming, I...
我给你留了一条语音信息 I left you a voice mail.
你是说那条尽情贬低我 You mean the one where you belittled me
让我成熟点的信息吗 and told me to grow the hell up?
你知道吗 兰德尔 You know what, Randall, you still have
你办公室的折叠床还在吧 that cot at your office?
你应该去那睡 You should go sleep on it.
我不会去费城睡 贝丝 I'm not sleeping in Philadelphia, Beth.
我们不能一直这样互相埋怨 We can't keep simmering like this forever.
很好 你想现在就讲清楚 Fine. You want to do this right now?
我们来讲清楚 把门关上 Let's do this. Close the door.
贝丝 如果你觉得你 Beth, if you think you...
不 不行 我先说 No. Mm-mm. Me first.
现在我看着你 I am looking at you right now,
但我都不认识你了 but I don't even recognize you.
因为我丈夫 我嫁的那个人 Because my husband, the man that I married,
不会像你在那条语音消息里那样 would never talk to me the way
跟我说话 从来不会 that you did on that voice mail, ever.
我知道 I know.
对不起 And I'm sorry.
那条信息是个严重失误 That message was a gross misstep.
失误 兰德尔 你上大学时穿酷奇毛衣 A misstep? Randall, your Coogi sweater phase in college,
那是一个失误 that's a misstep.
好吧 你说的话 Okay? What you said...
你用的什么词来着 What-what were your exact word
说我教"无聊家庭主妇怎么转圈" That I teach "Bored housewives how to twirl"?
我不是那个意思 I didn't mean it.
我只是 I was just...
我当时是想让你难受 I was trying to hurt your feelings.
我以为你放我鸽子了 我 I thought you were standing me up, and I...
我为什么会放你鸽子 Why would I stand you up?
我什么时候没支持过你 When have I ever not had your back?
从来没有 Never.
但如果我们都说实话 贝丝 But if we're being honest, Beth,
我们的节奏乱了 our rhythm has been off.
好吧 已经乱了几个月了 All right? It's been off for months.
不不 我的节奏好着 你的节奏乱了 No, no. My rhythm is fine; your rhythm is off.
因为你得不到你想要的 所以乱了 And it's off because you're not getting what you want.
-我得不到我想要的 -对 因为我拒绝 - I'm not getting what I want? - No. Because I refuse
放弃自己的生活来适应你 to give up my own life to accommodate yours.
我从来没有要求过 天啊 I've never asked... Oh, my...
我每天累死累活 I am killing myself
开车往返于费城和家之间 driving to Philly and back every day.
运气好的话 才能有机会 If I'm lucky, I get a chance
在孩子们睡觉之前见她们一面 to catch the girls before they go to bed.
要不回来 我也可以睡在办公室的折叠床上 If not, then I'm stuck sleeping on a pull-out in my office.
我都还没宣誓就职 I'm not even sworn in yet,
贝丝 我已经忙得不可开交 Beth, and I am already swamped.
但为了你的舞蹈演出 我还是回来了 But I still make it back for your dance recital.
每次你晚上有课的时候 And I still make it home to watch the girls
我还是回家照顾女儿们 every time you have an evening class,
因为我想让你有自己的生活 because I want you to have your own life.
不 你不想 No, you don't.
你只是意识到我不会停止教课 You just realized I'm not gonna stop teaching,
但你心里也从来没赞同过 but you are definitely not on board.
不不 在过去20年中 你能想到的 No, no. For the past 20 years, I have stood by your side
每一次突发奇想 每一次白日梦 through every whim, every pipe dream,
每次心血来潮 我都站在你身边支持 every flight of fancy that you can think of.
这是第一次 第一次 And for the first time, the first time,
我心血来潮 I have a flight of fancy.
我想要的东西 Something that I want.
却还是变成关于你的 And still, it becomes about you.
见鬼 兰德尔 Damn it, Randall,
从我们认识以来 就一直在为同一件事吵 we have been having the same fight since we met.
兰德尔
对... 对不起 Oh, I... I-I'm sorry.
没关系 No problem.
我们的生活 第三季 第十七集
凯文 她不是一个普通的女生 Kevin, she's not just any of girl.
是 她就是 Yes, she is.
她的确是个普通的女生 约她出去 That's exactly what she is, man. Ask her out.
我不能就走到贝丝·克拉克面前 I can't just walk up to Beth Clarke and go,
"你好 贝丝 我是兰德尔 你知道 "Hey, Beth, I'm Randall-- you know, the guy
那个在经济课上为每个人扶住门 who holds the door open for everyone in econ class
就为了他能随意地为你扶着门 just so he can casually hold it open for you
这样才不显得奇怪 对 那个人 without it being weird. Yeah, that guy
想一起吃个比萨什么的吗" want to go grab a pizza or something?"
你绝对到死都是处男 You're definitely gonna die a virgin.
-我才不会到死是处男 -你可能会 - I'm not gonna die a virgin. - You might.
闭嘴 内森 不许听我讲电话了 Shut up, Nathan, and stop listening to my phone calls.
-算了 -别 兄弟 - Forget it. - No, dude.
对不起 我 别挂电话 I'm sorry. I... Don't hang up.
索菲整天都有课 我的公交卡丢了 Um, Sophie's in class all day. I lost my MetroCard.
纽约没意思 New York sucks.
我想要帮忙 I want to help.
给贝丝宿舍打电话 Call Beth's dorm.
用另一个电话 这样我能听着 Use a different phone so I can listen,
我会告诉你说什么 and I'll tell you what to say.
你讲真的吗 Are you serious?
是 信我 史蒂夫·马丁做到了 Yeah. Trust me. Steve Martin did it
就在那个他有个大鼻子的电影里 in that movie where he's got the-the big nose, and I have...
我比他在行多了 way more game than him.
你好 Hello.
小凯 她接了电话 她接了 小凯 Kev, she picked up. She picked up, Kev.
很好 告诉她 Great. Tell her,
"你不知道我是谁 但你很快就知道了" "You don't know who I am, but you're about to."
-我才不说那个 -你想不想要我帮忙 - I'm not saying that. - Do you want my help or not?
你好 Hello?
你可能不知道我是谁 但你很快就知道了 Hey. You may not know who I am, but you're about to.
谁啊 Who is this?
兰德... 兰德尔·皮尔森 Rand... Randall Pearson.
兰德尔 Oh. Uh... Randall.
有什么事吗 What's going on?
她问我什么事 She asked me what's going on.
告诉她明晚想约她去吃晚餐 Tell her you're taking her to dinner tomorrow night,
问问几点去接她 and you want to know what time to pick her up.
就是 Hey, so...
我明晚要约你去吃晚餐 I'm gonna take you out to dinner tomorrow night.
我应该几点去接你呢 What time should I come pick you up?
兰德尔 你是要约我出去吗 U-Um, Randall, are you... are you asking me out?
是的 Yes.
我想是的 I guess I am.
好吧 Okay.
7点 7 o'clock?
真的 Really?
对 我跟你约会 Yeah, I'll go out with you.
一次 Once.
好了 那明天见 Okay, so I'll see you tomorrow, then.
-我的妈呀 -我的妈呀 - Holy crap. - Holy crap.
真没想到你会答应 I was surprised you said yes.
我想你大概从来不缺人约 You probably get asked out on dates all the time.
并没有 Not really.
你主修建筑专业 You're an architecture major.
我以为你会想学习舞蹈 I thought you might want to study dance.
没有 你怎么会那么想 No. What made you think that?
我打听过你的事了 I asked around about you.
好吧 你收集到了一些不好的情报 Well, you got some bad intel.
我以前跳舞 但不再继续了 I used to dance, but not anymore.
再也不了 如果现在有人播放 Ever? Like, if someone put on
一点《劳琳·希尔的错误教育》 some Miseducation of Lauryn Hill right now,
你不会翩翩起舞 you wouldn't cut a rug?
好吧 首先 Okay. Um, well, first of all,
你不会听着劳琳·希尔跳舞 你律动 you don't dance to Lauryn Hill; you groove.
其次 谁会说"翩翩起舞" And secondly, who says "Cut a rug"?
很多人会说"翩翩起舞" A lot of people say "Cut a rug."
白人 White people.
我是白人养大的 Well, I was raised by white people.
我是被收养的 I'm adopted.
你会惊讶地发现 You'd be surprised how hard that is
在聊天中很难放松下来 to ease in the conversation.
是啊 我之前不知道 Mm. Yeah, I didn't know.
你也可以问问我的情况 Well, maybe you should have asked around about me.
我出生那天被扔在消防局门口 I was dropped off at a fire station the day I was born.
有个消防员带我去了医院 And a fireman brought me to a hospital,
然后我爸说服我妈收养了我 and my dad convinced my mom to adopt me.
今年早些时候他去世了 He died earlier this year.
我父亲 My dad.
心脏病发作 然后... It was a heart attack, and...
抱歉 贝丝 I'm sorry, Beth.
我还不习惯谈论这件事 对不起 I'm not used to saying that out loud yet. I'm sorry.
我爸是去年去世的 Uh, my dad passed away last year.
他病了有段时间 He was sick for a while,
但还是感觉很突然 but it still felt so sudden.
是的 Yeah.
我们准备好要点餐了 I think we're ready to order.
抱歉 我们经理问 Sorry, but my manager asked
两位是否可以先付款 if you could pay for your meal first.
有什么问题吗 Um, is there something wrong?
没有 这是餐厅的规定 No, it's a restaurant policy.
是所有人都先结账后吃饭 Well, did-did all these people pay for their meal in advance,
还是只针对我们 or is that policy just for us?
贝丝 没事的 Beth, it's fine.
我们可能只是 You know, we probably just, you know,
看起来有点年轻 look a little young to be here, I guess.
我会付的 钱就在这儿 So I'll pay. The money's right here.
我不知道账单是 Uh, I don't know how much the check
-多少钱 -好了好了 不 - is gonna be, but... - Okay, okay. No, um...
兰德尔 不 把你的支票簿收起来 Randall, no, put your checkbook away.
我们不在这吃了 We're not... we're not eating here.
抱歉 让一下 Excuse me. Excuse me.
贝丝 贝丝 等等 Hey, Beth. Beth, wait up.
贝丝 Beth.
贝丝 贝丝 等一下 Beth. Beth, wait up.
等等 贝丝 Wait up, Beth.
你还真打算若无其事地 You were actually gonna hand over your check
-要把支票给他 -当然不是了 - like that was okay. - Of course it isn't okay,
我只是不想毁了这场约会 but I-I didn't want to ruin the date.
好吧 兰德尔 你人很好 Okay, okay, look, Randall, you're a very nice guy,
学校里的每个人都想让我和你在一起 and everyone at school has been trying to set me up with you
因为我们俩是那里唯一的黑人小孩 'cause we're pretty much the only two black kids there,
但是你... but you're just...
你太过了 Y-you're-you're a lot.
这场约会也太过了 And this date was a lot.
什么意思 What do you mean?
你知道我心中的完美约会是什么样吗 Um, you want to know what my idea of the perfect date is?
是墨西哥玉米片 It's nachos.
是姜汁啤酒和玉米片 It's-it's ginger beer and nachos.
而这 这些东西 This? All this,
这家餐厅和这些花 this-this restaurant and-and the flowers,
还有... 你西装革履的 and... I mean, you're in a suit and tie.
现在是26度 你不热吗 It is 78 degrees right now. Aren't you hot?
是有点热 但是... I mean, it's a little hot, yeah, but...
那就把那件蠢上衣脱了 Then take off the stupid jacket.
这不是什么蠢上衣 It's not a stupid jacket.
你想和我吵架 You're trying to start a fight with me,
但我不想和你吵 but I don't want to fight with you.
在我成长的家庭里 父母从不吵架 I-I grew up in a house with parents who didn't fight.
我是说 I... I mean,
他们吵过一次 th-they-they fought once.
吵得很凶 It-it was actually pretty rough.
我回家早了 然后看到了全过程 I came home early and watched the entire thing...
好了 兰德尔 我认识你才十分钟 Okay, Randall, I've known you for ten minutes.
别跟我说这些了 Just... stop telling me this stuff.
-我承受不起 -贝丝 - It's-it's too much. - Beth.
贝丝 别走 B-Beth. Stop it.
你不能就这样离开 You can't just walk off like that.
这件上衣是我最好的一件衣服 This jacket i-is the nicest thing I own,
我穿它是因为想在你面前穿好一点 and I-I wore it because I wanted to look nice for you.
还有这些花 我不知道你喜欢什么 These flowers? I didn't know what you'd like,
所以买了四束花 so I bought four bouquets.
我宿舍里全是花 我... My dorm is literally covered in flowers. I...
我只是想给你一次超棒的第一次约会 I-I just thought you deserved a great first date.
我想把最好的东西都给你 I think you deserve everything.
我得走了 兰德尔 I-I have to go, Randall.
再说一遍 你是个很好的人 Again, you're-you're a very nice guy,
但请不要再打给我了 but please don't call me again.
怎么样了 So? How'd it go?
不错 Good.
我要和她结婚 I'm gonna marry her.
*穿上洁白嫁衣* *Meet me at the altar*
*在圣坛与我相见* *In your white dress*
*我们还是结婚吧 年华已逝不复返* *We ain't getting no younger, we might as well do it*
*我必须承认 爱你始终如一* *Been feeling you all the while, girl, I must confess*
*女孩 我们结婚吧* *Girl, let's just get married*
*我想和你结婚* *I just want to get married...*
贝丝 我一生挚爱 Beth, love of my life,
你愿意嫁给我吗 will you marry me?
我要工作 I need to work.
-你不要再求婚了 -所以是答应了吗 - You need to stop proposing. - So, is that a "Yes"?
是"尚未可知" It's a "Not yet."
至少我们是更近一步了 Well, at least we're getting closer.
当我在海盗游戏的大屏幕上求婚时 When I proposed on the jumbotron at the Pirates game,
你说的是"绝对不行" you said, "Hell no,"
"尚未可知"是朝着正确方向靠近了 so "Not yet" is a step in the right direction.
-亲爱的 -我... - Baby? - I... Yeah.
你就是我的真命天子 You are it for me.
酸甜苦辣 我们一起度过了七年 After seven unbelievable years,
你觉得我还会分手再找别人吗 you think I want to break in another boyfriend?
我只是还没准备好结婚 I'm just not ready to get married.
-不必着急 -我知道 - We don't have to rush. - I know.
等等 Mmm. Wait.
我们得赶紧出发了 Oh, we got to get out of here,
不然周日在我妈家的聚餐就要迟到了 or we're gonna be late for Sunday dinner at my mom's.
如果我们今晚不去周日聚餐呢 Well, what if we don't do, uh, Sunday dinner tonight?
你不想去我妈家吃饭吗 You don't want to have dinner at Mom's?
对 不是 我是说 Yeah, no, that... I mean,
我们每周日都去你妈妈家吃饭 we just have dinner at your mom's every Sunday.
我们可以去打迷你高尔夫 We could go miniature golfing.
我们很久都没去打迷你高尔夫了 You and I haven't been miniature golfing in a while.
-迷你高尔夫曾经是我们的最爱 -是的 - Oh, mini golf used to be our jam. - Yeah.
妈妈肯定会喜欢的 I bet Mom's gonna love that.
我玩得很开心 I am having so much fun.
或许下次我们可以去打保龄球 Maybe next time we can go bowling.
看看吧 Yeah, maybe.
丽贝卡 你有和谁交往吗 So, Rebecca, you seeing anyone?
-我吗 没有 -对 - Me? No. - Yeah.
我的一位教授最近分居了 You know, one of my professors is recently separated,
-他很喜欢... -不不 贝丝 - and he is totally into... - No, no, no, no. No, Beth.
不 谢谢 抱歉 但我很好 No, thank you. Sorry, but I'm-I'm fine.
我想要的只是我的孩子找到对的人 All I want is for my kids to find the right people
然后安定下来 and, you know, settle down,
未来求婚时对着伴侣说句"我愿意" maybe say yes to one of their proposals at some point.
好了 兰德尔一分 农场零分 Okay, Randall one, farmhouse zero.
-刚才那轮我代你打了 妈该你了 -好 - Babe, I took your turn, so, Mom, you're up. - Okay.
你把每次求婚的事都告诉你妈了吗 Did you tell your mom about all of the proposals?
是 Yes?
包括那次我们... Including the one where we were...
我很得体优雅地告诉了她 I-I told it to her very tastefully.
没有透露任何细节 I didn't give her any details.
怎么 告诉妈妈求婚的事很正常啊 What? It's normal to tell your mom about proposing.
一点都不正常 There is nothing normal about this.
-说实话 贝丝 是我的错 -丽贝卡 - Honestly, Beth, it's my fault. - Rebecca.
-我不该... -丽贝卡 我现在 - I shouldn't... - Rebecca, I'm trying to have
想和兰德尔私下谈谈 a private conversation with Randall right now.
对不起 你们俩说吧 Sorry. I'll let you two have your own conversation.
不 妈 妈 No. Mom. Mom.
贝丝 如果你有话想说 请讲 Beth, if you have something to say, say it.
不是吧兰德尔 你现在就要说清楚吗 Really, Randall? You want to do this right now?
好吧 Fine.
我爱你 但我没准备好结婚 I love you, but I'm not ready to get married
因为我还没有理清我的生活 because I haven't figured out my life yet,
而且我不想... and I don't want...
什么 你不想要什么 What? What don't you want?
我不希望自己的生活被我丈夫的吞噬 I don't want my life to be consumed by my husband's.
兰德尔 我爱你 但... And, Randall, I love you, but...
你消耗一切 you consume things.
好吧 你可以放心了 Well, let me put your mind at ease.
我不会再向你求婚了 You don't have to worry about me proposing again.
兰德尔 我根本不是这个... Randall, that's not even what I...
抱歉 我想静静 No, I need a minute.
好吗 一会咱们在车旁见 All right? I'll see you two by the car.
我可以坐吗 May I?
丽贝卡 我不是那个意思 Rebecca, I didn't mean to say that.
-我很抱歉 -不不 没关系 贝丝 - I'm so sorry. - No, no. It's-it's fine, Beth.
你以为我希望自己的儿子娶个花瓶吗 You think I want my son ending up with some wallflower?
并不 No.
我很高兴他和你在一起 I'm glad it's gonna be you.
真的吗 Really?
婚姻... Marriage is...
没那么简单 complicated.
我知道我儿子常热情过度 I know my son's passions tend to overwhelm,
但你不必担心和他在一起会失去自我 but you don't need to worry about losing yourself with him,
因为他永远不会让那种事发生 because he'll never let that happen.
你怎么知道的 How do you know?
兰德尔11岁时 When Randall was 11,
我们住在木屋避暑 we stayed at the cabin for the summer.
我记得自己和他坐在屋外的台阶上 And I remember sitting out on the steps with him,
抬头看着星星 looking up at the stars.
我在寻找北斗七星 I was trying to find the Big Dipper.
而他哭了起来 And he started crying.
哭得很凶 Hyperventilating.
焦虑发作 Having an anxiety attack.
他冷静下来之后 告诉了我他为什么不安 And after he calmed down, he told me why he was upset.
当时他仰望着浩瀚广阔的苍穹 You know, he was looking up at this big, open sky,
感觉自己十分渺小 and he felt really small.
他感到害怕 He was scared
因为他不知道宇宙中属于自己的位置在哪 because he didn't know where he fit in the universe.
而七年前 Well, seven years ago,
遇到你之后 他给我打了电话 after he met you, he called me.
说他再也没有那种恐惧了 Told me he no longer had that fear.
走吧 兰德尔 Hey. Come on, Randall.
咱们去个地方 We're going somewhere.
-我妈怎么办 -别管你妈了 - What about my mom? - Forget about your mom.
她让我这么说的 她的原话 不是我 She told me to say that. Her words, not mine.
能告诉我咱们来这干什么了吗 Are you gonna tell me what we're doing here?
还不行 Not yet.
我想来份二号玉米片 多加芝士 Can I get a number-two nachos with extra cheese?
可以放点辣椒 You can throw some jalapeños on there.
再来一杯姜汁啤酒 And a ginger beer.
-冰镇的 -这就来 - Ice-cold if you have it. - Coming right up.
-贝丝 -时机未到 - Beth. - Not yet.
好了 Okay.
我准备好了 I'm ready.
问吧 Ask me.
-现在吗 -对 - Right now? - Yeah.
这是我最爱的食物 This is my favorite meal.
你是我最爱的人 You're my favorite person.
就这样最好 This is how I want it.
你没带戒指也没关系 I know you don't have the ring. It's fine.
不用...天啊 It doesn't have... Oh, my God.
-不是吧 -咱家大门都锁不上 - Really? - Our front door barely locks.
你觉得我会把这个留在公寓里吗 You think I leave this in the apartment?
好吧 开始之前我想说 All right, look, before you do this,
我们不能因对方迷失自我 we're not gonna lose ourselves in each other.
我们要相互独立 We're gonna be full people.
平等 Equals.
我们是个团队 We're a team.
好了 开始吧 All right, go ahead.
咱们怎么已经哭上了 How are we crying already?
明明已经来过一百万次了 We've done this a million times.
贝丝·克拉克 Beth Clarke...
你是我此生挚爱 you are the love of my life.
你给予了我意义 You are my reason.
带给了我喜悦 You are my joy.
你就是我的全部 You are my everything.
我不想过没有你的生活 And I don't want to do life without you,
所以... so...
你愿意嫁给我吗 will you marry me?
我也不愿过没有你的生活 I don't want to do life without you, either.
愿意 愿意 Yes. Yes.
我愿意 Yes!
-贝丝 -我在 - Beth? - Yeah.
我的天啊 Holy crap.
你们怎么买得起这幢房子的 How can you guys afford this house?
我找卧室时都迷路了 I got lost finding your bedroom.
所以婚礼在后院举行 That's why we're having the wedding in the backyard.
-郊区的房价不便宜 -好吧 - Suburbs ain't cheap. - Okay, well,
-你准备好开始婚礼了吗 -嗯 快了 - are you ready to get your wedding on? - Yeah, almost.
什么词与"爱"押韵 What rhymes with "Love"?
鸽子 推挤 Dove. Shove.
手套 超过 Glove. Above.
超过 就是这个 谢谢 Above! That's it. Thank you.
什么词与"永远"押韵 What rhymes with "Forever"?
贝丝 五分钟后婚礼就要开始了 Beth, you're getting married in five minutes.
你在干什么 What is happening?
我在写誓词 I'm writing my vows.
现在吗 Right now?
对 我本想上周写好的 Yeah, I wanted to do them last week,
但来了很多急事 but then all these last-minute things came up.
而且 其实 And, you know, I mean,
再给我几分钟就好 凯特 I just need a few more minutes, Kate.
你能让他们再等一下吗 Can you stall them, please?
好吧 可以 Okay. Um, yes.
但你快点 But hurry.
"努力" Ooh! Endeavor.
-什么 -它和"永远"押韵 - What? - Rhymes with "Forever."
是吧 Yeah.
你太给力了 大姑姐 That's why I love you, sister-in-law.
请进 到时间了吗 Yeah. Is it time?
差不多 贝丝还没好 Almost. Beth needs a few minutes.
她在改誓词 She's just going over her vows.
她可能有点紧张 She's probably getting nervous
因为她知道我的誓词肯定超赞 'cause she knows mine are gonna be epic.
-真棒 -我整周都在反复斟酌 - Nice. - Been perfecting these bad boys all week.
厉害吧 Yeah, yeah.
写了不少 真是... That's a lot... that's...
真是很长... that's a lot of w...
这份誓词有多长 How-how-how long is this?
不知道 五六分钟吧 I don't know. Like, five, six minutes?
好吧 我们演戏时 Okay. Well, in acting, you know,
一个剧本大约一分钟一页 we typically say a script is, like, uh, like, a minute a page.
但这份誓词12号字 单倍行距 Okay? But this is, uh, 12-point, single-spaced.
就这份誓词 你... This right here, you...
如果你给她读这个 She's gonna die of old age
她等到天荒地老你也读不完 before you finish it if you read that to her.
好吧 我可以选取片段 Okay. I guess they could use some cuts.
好的 没问题 咱们... All right, no problem. Let's just, uh...
咱们从头开始吧 We'll start from the beginning, okay,
然后看看哪能删减 and we'll-we'll see what we can trim.
-没问题的 -好的 - Yeah. We're fine. - Okay. All right.
"希腊哲学家柏拉图将婚姻定义为 "Greek philosopher Plato defined marriage
两个人达成的概念性协议 As a conceptual agreement between two.
一家著名机构..." A prominent institution regulating..."
别管 删了吧 Don't care. Cut it.
-好吧 -对对 - Okay. - Yeah, yeah.
-这段怎么样 -继续吧 - Um, how about this? Um... - Let's keep going.
美国音乐家 歌手
"对于王子1991年专辑 "A deconstruction of Prince's 1991 album
《钻石与珍珠》的解构表明 Diamonds and Pearls reveals that
你在今天这个日子..." this will be the day that you..."
删掉 删掉 Oh, cut that. Cut that.
听我说 你得这样 Listen, just, here's the thing, man.
直接跳到写贝丝的部分 Just go to the time where you start talking about Beth.
-好的 -从那开始 - Okay. - Start from there.
-好 -好的 - Okay. - Okay.
好吧 Okay.
好吧 小凯 我... Okay, Kev, I...
我恐怕没写誓词 I don't think I wrote vows.
我写了一篇又臭又长的婚姻论文 I think I wrote a deeply boring dissertation on marriage.
你能不能...告诉贝丝我还没准备好 Will you... will you go tell Beth I need more time?
好吧 好吧 Okay. Okay.
好了 新娘准备好了 Okay. Bride is ready.
但新郎还没 他在重写誓词 The groom is not. He's rewriting his vows.
-什么 -没办法 - What? - Yeah.
他在居然在重写誓词 He's rewriting his vows?
你好美 Wow. So pretty.
你不是在开玩笑吧 Are you freaking kidding me?
贝丝 咱们没必要反应过度 Beth, I don't think we need to overreact.
兰德尔·皮尔森 Randall Pearson.
闭上眼睛 因为我要进去了 Close your eyes, 'cause I'm coming in.
小凯 Kev?
你脸上沾了东西 就在那 You got something, like, right here.
-有点... -你可真逗 - Sort of... - Oh, you're very funny.
你进来干什么 What are you doing in here?
在婚礼前看到对方会倒霉的 It's bad luck to see each other before the wedding.
所以我没看你 Well, that's why I'm not looking.
你怎么还在写你的誓词 How the hell are you still writing your vows?
不 我没在写 只是在修改 No, I'm not writing them. I'm-I'm revising them.
而且 你还好意思说 Okay? And you're one to talk.
凯文说你自己的还没写好 Kevin said you were still working on yours.
我没写的原因是 Well, the reason mine aren't written
因为我一整周 is because I've been working on
都在为婚礼做准备 getting this wedding ready all week.
而且全凭一己之力 Which I did on my own, mind you,
因为你一直忙于 because you were too busy
写你的世纪性婚礼誓词 writing the wedding vows of the century.
我只是想改得再好点 I was just trying to make them perfect.
等等 你真觉得你自己一个人 Wait. You really feel like you planned this wedding
计划了婚礼吗 all by yourself?
没有 我只是感觉压力过大 No, I'm just stressed.
咱们的誓词怎么办呢 What do you want to do about the vows?
咱们一快写吧 Let's just write them together.
怎么样 就现在 You know? Right now.
你想一起写婚礼誓词吗 You want to cowrite the wedding vows?
对 兰德尔 我们齐心协力时更强 Yeah. Randall, we're better together.
这也是我们结婚的原因 That's why we're doing this whole thing.
来吧 Come on.
就现在 我们轮流说出心底所想 Right now, let's just take turns and speak from the heart.
好吗 过来 Okay? Come here.
但我们不应该看到对方... But we shouldn't look at each other. Just...
好吧 Okay.
什么 What?
贝丝 Beth...
很抱歉我花了太多时间写誓词 I'm sorry I spent too much time working on my vows.
你了解我 我有时想得太多 As you well know, sometimes I overthink things.
对各种事都想太多 Overthink everything.
好吧 说的没错 All right, you're right.
你知道 我虽然有时对各种事都想太多 As you know, sometimes I overthink everything.
但和你在一起时不会这样 But not with you.
我的全部都属于你 Every part of me belongs to you.
-那珍妮特呢 -又说对了 - What about Janet? - Right again.
除了16岁向珍妮特·杰克逊 Except for that very small part of me
做过承诺的那一小部分我 that I promised to Janet Jackson when I was 16.
你的内心超越了我的想象 Your heart is unlike anything I've ever known.
你是我心灵的港湾 贝丝 You're my steady place, Beth.
和你在一起 我成为了最好的自己 I'm the best version of me when I'm with you.
不仅是因为你教会我穿衣搭配 And that's not just because you stepped my fashion game up.
郑重声明 那是我的功劳 Which I did, for the record.
那就把这项功劳记录在案吧 Well, let the record reflect your contribution.
贝丝 Beth...
我想成为那个值得你托付终身的人 I want to be the man that you deserve.
还有 And...
我承诺自己会用后半生渴求你的爱 I promise to spend the rest of my life earning your love,
因为你是我... because you are the only thing...
是我此生所求的唯一 the only thing I'm ever going to need.
兰德尔 我没想到是你 Randall, I wasn't expecting you.
我没想到我们会在一起 I didn't think that we would end up together.
我这一生... The single most...
最非比寻常的奇迹 extraordinary thing I've ever done with my life
就是爱上了你 is falling in love with you.
我从未被如此透彻地了解... I've never been seen so completely...
如此热烈地宠爱... loved so passionately...
如此周到地保护 protected so fiercely.
这些话是凭空想出来的吗 Is that off the dome?
-简直太酷了宝贝 很不错 -是吗 - 'Cause damn, baby. That was nice. - Right?
是啊 Yeah, yeah.
兰德尔 当我注视你的双眼时 Honestly, Randall, when I look in your eyes,
我看到了自己的家 I see my home.
我看到了永恒 I see eternity.
无论我们遇到什么事... And no matter what may come our way...
我承诺你将永远是我的选择 I promise that I'll always choose you.
我爱你 I love you.
我也爱你 I love you, too.
咱们结婚吧 Let's go get married.
好 Okay.
抱歉 宝贝 Sorry, baby.
凌晨三点 爸爸头脑发昏 3:00 a.m., and Daddy does not know where he is.
-你用错湿巾了 -天啊 - Oh, you're using the wrong wipes. - Oh, geez.
你用错湿巾了 You're using the wrong wipes.
那为什么把它们放这 Then why are they here?
她喜欢它们的味道 She likes the smell.
什么 你买这些湿巾 What, you buy the wrong wipes
就是让她闻味用的 just so that she can smell them?
是我累糊涂了 还是这事根本毫无意义 Am I tired, or does that make no sense at all?
不知道 亲爱的 走吧 我来吧 I don't know, honestly. Move. I'll do it.
你让我来弄的 You asked me to do it.
我四小时后就要上班了 I have to be at work in four hours,
反正我也被叫醒了 所以让我来吧 and you woke me up anyway, so just let me do it.
-你涂护臀霜了吗 -麻烦你退后点好吗 - Did you put the butt paste first? - Can you back up, please?
我完全有能力给我女儿换尿布 I'm perfectly capable of changing my daughter's diaper
不需要你看着 without any supervision.
让我来吧 好早点回去睡觉 Just let me do it so I can go back to bed.
-我累疯了 -我每周工作72小时 - I'm freaking exhausted. - I work 72 hours a week.
你不觉得我累疯了吗 You don't think I'm exhausted?
-去你的 呸 -呸 呸 - You pfft! Pfft you! - You pfft, pfft!
我都不知道咱们在吵什么 I don't even know what the hell we're fighting about.
好像是因为婴儿用湿巾 It's baby wipes, I think.
我感觉晕乎乎的 Oh, I feel drunk.
最好别 You better not be drunk.
-你饿了吗 -能吃得下 - You hungry? - I could eat.
-玉米片 -天啊 听着不错 - Nachos? - Oh, God, that sounds good.
给这位女士多加芝士格外油腻的玉米片 Extra cheesy, extra greasy nachos for the lady
马上就来 coming right up.
没错 Oh, yes.
记得先洗手 Make sure you wash your hands first.
别烦我 You leave me alone.
是啊 她被困在了婴儿车里 Yeah, she's strapped into her stroller,
而我离池塘边还远 and I'm not even near the edge of the pond or anything,
我就那样看着她往下掉 but I just keep seeing her falling in.
-天啊 贝丝 -真可怕 对吧 - Jesus, Beth. - I know, right?
好吧 咱们玩个游戏吧 Okay, let's play a game.
除了死亡 Barring death,
宝宝可能遇到的最糟糕状况是什么 what's the worst-case scenario for our baby?
任何事情吗 Anything goes?
你尽管说 Lay it on me, Mama.
她不会跳舞 That she can't dance.
她没有节奏感 That she don't have no rhythm.
别这样看我 Don't look at me like that.
-我真这么担心 -好吧 - That's a real fear. - Okay.
该你了 Your turn.
我最怕她满身都是纹身 That she's covered in tattoos.
我知道 你可以说我古板 You know, call me old-fashioned,
提潘 美国说唱歌手
但我真不希望提潘写的歌里有我女儿 but I don't want T-Pain making a song about my daughter.
我害怕等我的产假休完回去上班之后 That she forgets me when my maternity leave ends
她会慢慢不记得我 and I go back to work.
我最怕的就是这个 That is worst-case for me.
过去和她一起的这三个月根本不够 That these past three months with her just weren't enough.
我还以为你很期待回去工作呢 I thought you were looking forward to going back to work.
之前是的 现在也是 I was. I still am.
贝丝 我们一定能找到解决的办法 Beth, we'll figure out a way to make it work.
好吧 说着好听 但你知道的 Yeah, sounds good, but, you know,
"解决"通常代表我要去妥协 我要去搞定 "Making it work" usually means I adjust, I make it work.
-这话什么意思 -没什么 - What does that mean? - Nothing.
不行 你不能糊弄过去 No! You can't "Nothing" That.
-说清楚 -好吧 兰德尔 - Say it. - Oh, come on, Randall,
我们说真的 你是不会去辞职的 let's be real-- you're not gonna quit your job,
所以如果有人要去照顾女儿 那就只能是我 so if somebody has to make it work, it's gonna be me.
我必然会失去一些东西 I have to lose something.
不会是这样的 That's not true.
你知道吗 我有一个理论 仔细听好 You know what? I have this theory. Hear me out.
好的 Okay.
我认为墨西哥玉米片有三种 对吧 So, there are three different kinds of nachos, right?
第一种是玉米片碎屑 There are the crumbs,
就是那种底下全是盐的小碎片 the little scraps with all the salt at the bottom.
它们会黏在手上 把你的衣服弄脏 They stick to your fingers. They mess up your clothes.
-很烦人 没人喜欢它 懂吗 -好的 - They're nasty. Nobody likes them, right? - Okay.
然后第二种是碎裂的玉米片 明白吗 Then there are the chipped nachos, okay?
这种的边缘并不平滑 There's no smooth edges.
它们有的时候能沾到芝士 Sometimes they catch cheese.
有的时候就只是一块玉米片而已 不好不坏 Sometimes they're just a plain chip. They're fine.
最后一种才是百里挑一的精华 And then there's the cream of the crop.
整片玉米片包裹着浓郁的芝士 The whole nacho with lots of cheese
配上分量刚刚好的佐料 and the perfect amount of toppings.
韧劲足 完全被芝士包裹的 Unbroken, fully coated
-完美墨西哥玉米片 -等等 - triangles of goodness. - Wait.
在凌晨四点钟 It's 4:00 in the morning,
你要跟我高谈阔论一篇玉米片论文吗 and you're giving me a dissertation on nachos?
不 你知道后面有哲学意义的 No, you know I be philosophizing.
-好吧 好吧 -听着 - Yeah, well... - Now,
你知道我们之间什么事是最珍贵的 兰德尔 I was thinking, you know what's great about us, Randall,
我觉得是当我想吃玉米片的时候你会做给我吃 is that when I need nachos, you make them for me.
我非常喜欢这点 And I love that.
但你是那种会把所有沾满芝士的玉米片 But you're the kind of person who goes for the whole chip
都吃光的人 with lots of cheese.
你并不是有意为之 You don't do it on purpose.
你只是那种会挑着吃有很多芝士的玉米片的人 You're just a whole chip with a lot of cheese kind of person.
我也是 但 And so am I, yet...
等等 不是的 我不是故意留碎渣给你的 Wait, no. I don't leave you with the crumbs.
怎么 难道你觉得我会故意留碎渣给你吗 What, do you feel like I leave you with the crumbs?
不 别较真 我不 我甚至都不知道 No, don't spiral. I don't... I don't even know
我在说什么 好吗 我累坏了 what I'm saying, okay? I'm exhausted.
好吧 那我从此不再吃玉米片了 Yeah, well, I'll never eat nachos again,
-这样行了吧 -不 别生气 别这样 - so there you go. - No. Oh, come on. All right, come on.
我们上床睡觉吧 好吗 Let's just go to bed, all right?
趁咱们的磨人精下一波哭闹开启之前 Before our little screamer wakes us up again.
我们等早上再清理这些 We'll just clean that up in the morning.
所以我告诉这只猫"我不会再在这种公共场合 So I told this cat, "I'm never playing dominoes
玩多米诺骨牌了" in this joint again."
-她出来了 -你们好啊 - Oh, there she is. - Hey, guys.
你饿不饿 Hey, you hungry?
-小凯做了煎饼 -我看到了 - Kev made pancakes. - I see that.
对了 贝丝 我之前跟兰德尔聊过 Yeah, Beth, I was talking to Randall earlier,
地下室的网络实在是太差了 and the Wi-Fi in the basement, it's subpar.
-离远点就断网 -因为是地下室嘛 - It's very spotty. - Uh, 'cause it's a basement.
那我为什么要住地下室 因为你看啊 Well, why am I in the basement? 'Cause, you know,
威廉住这就住在楼上 他住安妮的房间 William over here, he's upstairs, he's in Annie's room.
因为皮尔森宾馆的经营模式就是这样的 'Cause that's how we do it over here at Hotel Pearson.
明白了吗 久未联络的老父亲住楼上 You know? Estranged fathers go upstairs,
电视明星的哥哥必须住地下室 television star brothers go downstairs.
-好吧 -很好 对了 我要出去一下 - All right. - All right, well, I'm headed out.
-去哪里 -我要去宾州赫尔希镇参加 - Where to? - I'm going to this Urban Development
城市发展领导人会议 Leadership Conference in Hershey, Pennsylvania.
-听起来很棒 -只待一晚 - Sounds cool. - Just for a night.
-好极了 -辛迪的父母没法送安妮回来 - Great. -So, uh, Cindy's parents can't drop off Annie,
你能去她聚会的地方接她回来吗 so can you pick her up from her sleepover?
好的夫人 我和"淡定兄"保证完成任务 Yes, ma'am. Will Hill and I are on the job.
-很好 爱你 -我也爱你 - All right, love you. - Love you, too.
-大家再见 -再见 - Bye, guys. - Bye.
你知道我们该干什么吗 You know what we should do?
-你想干吗 -现在的话 想下注玩骨牌 - What do you want to do? - Right now? Dominoes, for money.
不不 我不能 我不想赢光你们的钱 Oh, no, no. I'm not... I'm not gonna take your guys' money.
你是怕了 我觉得你就是害怕了 You're scared. You look scared to me.
-天哪 -我要赢光你的钱 -抓住他 - Oh, boy. - I'll take your money. - Go get him.
安妮的朋友家还要多久才能到 How far away does Annie's friend live?
-我们快到了 -好吧 - We're almost there. - Hmm.
表演是什么时候 晚上九点 我不确定能不能...
你会发消息 Oh, you know how to text?
我是快死了 但我又不是老古董 I'm dying. I'm not a hundred.
杰西想约我出去 Jesse's trying to get me to go
今晚有个查尔斯·洛艾德的音乐会 to this Charles Lloyd concert tonight,
但音乐会要晚上九点才开始 but the show doesn't start till 9:00.
好吧 我知道咱们时间很紧张 威廉 Well, I know we run a tight ship, William,
但如果你今天晚上不回家也是可以的 but it's okay for you to stay out past curfew.
真是谢谢你 但音乐会本来就结束得晚 Well, thank you, but these things end late,
而且我也不想去他那里过夜 and I don't want to have to spend the night at his place.
他的公寓能冻死个人 The man's apartment is freezing.
那你为什么不跟他直说呢 Why don't you just ask him,
"杰西 你介意我把暖气打开吗" "Hey, Jesse, mind if we turn on the heat?"
算了 我不希望让他 Nah, I don't want him to have to
因为我改变他的生活习惯 change his routine on account of me.
直接找借口不去过夜反而更简单些 It's easier if I just make an excuse not to stay over.
不 老爸 直接跟他说更简单 No, man, it's easier to talk to him.
你知道吗 我和贝丝 我们不会隐瞒事情 You know, me and Beth, we don't sit on stuff.
我们互相倾诉 We talk to each other.
开诚布公的沟通才能维持良好的关系 Nothing beats honest, open communication.
《新鲜王子妙事多》 威尔·史密斯主演美剧 菲尔叔叔为剧中角色
好吧 菲尔叔叔 我会考虑的 Okay, Uncle Phil. I'll think on it.
我们要开始玩新鲜王子的梗了吗 Oh, we making Fresh Prince references now, huh?
你到底觉得我有多老 How old do you actually think I am?
先停一下车 Hey, pull over.
我想多买点糖浆 配剩下的煎饼吃 I want to get some more syrup for them leftover pancakes.
晚饭也许就有着落了 Might have it for dinner.
遵命 Right on.
可能在这边 儿子 Maybe down here, son.
好的 Yeah.
贝丝 Beth?
你不是去赫尔希镇了吗 Why aren't you in Hershey?
我... I, uh...
我先去找糖浆了 I'm gonna go find that syrup.
让你有机会使用你引以为傲的那什么 Give you a chance to do some of that great communicating
伟大的沟通方法 you're so proud of.
你来这里干吗 What are you doing here?
买糖浆 Buying syrup.
你来这里干什么 What are you doing here?
别急着下结论 Don't jump to conclusions.
-事情不是你想的那样 -小鱼软糖 - It's not what you think. - Swedish Fish.
怎么 你去赫尔希的路上要抽空看个电影吗 What, you stopping at the movies on your way to Hershey?
这也不能解释这瓶酒 That doesn't explain that bottle of wine.
-兰德尔 我 -还是你编造了一场会议 - Randall, I... - Or did you make up a conference
所以你就能偷偷地开房过夜 so you could secretly check into a hotel for the night
自己边看电影边喝红酒 to watch movies and drink that bottle of wine
-还吃着小鱼软糖 -该死 这都猜到了 - and eat Swedish Fish? - Damn, that's impressive.
搞什么鬼 贝丝 What the hell, Beth?
我只是需要自己独处一天 I just needed 24 hours to myself.
离开生父和白人兄弟们 Away from biological fathers and white brothers.
但不要误解我 我很喜欢他们 And don't get me wrong, I adore them.
我很喜欢威廉 I adore William.
我能忍受凯文 I tolerate Kevin.
但太累了 But it's a lot.
所以我撒谎了 So I lied.
我只是需要独处一天 I just needed 24 hours.
不用承担妻子或母亲的角色 Not to be a wife and a mother
或者是照料者 主妇的角色 and a caretaker and a housekeeper.
我只是 我只是想做一个女人 I just... I just want to be a woman
一个喜欢睡酒店大床房 用我的iPad who sleeps in a big-ass hotel bed and watches movies
看电影 看《单身生活》重播的女人 and-and reruns of Living Single from my iPad
边看边泡着按摩浴缸 而且我 in my big-ass Jacuzzi tub, and I...
好了 我明白了 Okay, I get it.
-我们家里现在确实有很多人和事 -是的 - There's a lot going on in our house. - Yes.
但如果你需要空间 为什么不直接跟我说呢 But if you needed space, why not just ask for it...
我说过了 I have asked!
我已经说过了 I have asked.
但上次我说的时候 最后却变成了出独幕戏 And the last time I asked, it became a one-act play
你不断地问"哪不对了" about "What's wrong"
还有还有"我为什么需要独处一天" and-and "Why do I need a day alone?"
等到我说服你这不是件大事的时候 By the time I convinced you it was nothing bigger,
天都黑了 当时 我已经精疲力尽了 the day was over, and it was... I was exhausted.
我甚至连一集《单身生活》都没看完就睡着了 I wouldn't have been awake to watch a single Living Single.
对...对不起 我很爱你 I-I'm sorry. I love you.
-我很抱歉我撒了谎 -我不希望让你觉得 - I feel terrible that I lied. - I don't want you to feel
你只能逃离我们来释放自己 like you have to run away from us.
我没有 我发誓 只是家里住了太多男人 I don't. I swear. There's just a lot of men living in my house.
我有点崩溃了 And I broke.
没事了 Okay.
好了 去享受你的独处时光吧 All right, go enjoy your 24 hours.
你能再回答我一个问题吗 Uh, will you just answer me one thing?
《单身生活》你要从哪一集开始看 What episode of Living Single are you gonna start with?
麦克斯和凯尔滚床单 The one where Max and Kyle sleep together
然后在乐至家具店里醒过来吓坏了的那集 and wake up in the La-Z-Boy all freaked out.
我超喜欢那集 I love that episode.
你还记得欧比把麦克斯的绒面鞋拿给凯尔时 Hey, you remember when Obie brought Kyle Max's suede pump,
凯尔当时说"想想吧 我真地能拿这喝水" and Kyle was like, "And to think I actually drank out of this."
太恶心了 That was so nasty.
乐死我了 Oh, man.
好吧 现在我想跟你一起看了 Well, now I don't want to watch it without you.
去吧 说什么傻话 Go. What are you talking about?
不 No.
我要回家 去帮威廉找糖浆 I'm coming home. Go get William's syrup.
告诉他 他喜欢的那个牌子在第四个过道 Tell him the one that he likes is in aisle four.
你确定吗 Are you sure?
其实我并不介意你给自己放一天假 'Cause I don't mind you having your day.
我很确定 I'm sure.
还有凯文也用光厕纸了 And Kevin's out of toilet paper.
他喜欢薰衣草味道的厕纸 He likes the lavender-scented one.
拿一提薰衣草味道的厕纸 Pick up the lavender-scented one.
我去拿 I'm on it.
我已经不想再吵这种架了 I am tired of having this fight.
从我们认识以来 就一直在为同一件事吵 We have been having the same fight ever since we met.
我不想因为你失去自我 I don't want to be swallowed up by you,
但你总能甜言蜜语哄得我让你为所欲为 and then you sweet-talk me and do whatever the hell you want.
你把我变成了你妈的角色 You have turned me into your mother.
贝丝 别把我妈扯进来 Beth, don't bring my mother into this.
好吧 但她已经卷进来了 Well, she's already in it.
你甚至都不知道 但他俩一直活在我们之间 You don't even realize it, but they're both in it.
承认吧 Admit that you think
你觉得你的工作要远比我的重要 that your job is more important than mine.
-太荒唐了 -承认吧 - That's absurd. - Admit it.
向我承认吧 其实你非常讨厌 Admit to me that you hated the fact
我能拥有自己喜爱的事业 that I had something happening for myself.
-我只是讨厌你撒谎 -不 - I hated that you lied - No.
瞒着我和你的前男友一起工作 about working with your ex-boyfriend.
不 你就是在胡扯 杰克 No, that's total BS, Jack.
快点 兰德尔 承认吧 Come on, Randall, admit it.
不 No.
我不会受你胁迫去对你说一些 I will not be bullied into saying something
更加恶劣的话 even more awful to you.
我不会那样跟你说话的 我绝不会 I will not speak that way to you. I won't do it.
-不 你不希望我有自己的事业 -事业 - No. You didn't want me to have a career. - Career?
-是的 事业 -你就是个在酒吧里 - Yes, career. - You are a 40-year-old woman
翻唱的40岁妇女 这算什么事业 丽贝卡 singing covers in pubs. That is not a career, Rebecca.
简直太可笑了 That is ridiculous.
我们曾向彼此做出过承诺 We made a promise to one another
我们绝不会因为对方而放弃自我 that we would never get lost in each other,
但我没有守住这个承诺 and I broke that promise.
而且是你让我失去自我的 And you let me.
你让我一次又一次妥协去迎合你的需求 You have let me bend to your every need time and time again.
我们有孩子 我就不能全身心投入工作 Oh, we have kids, I have to step back from my job.
你辞了职 我就要加倍工作 You quit your job, I work overtime.
你梦想着想买下你父亲住过的大楼 You have a dream of buying your father's building,
这梦想也变成了我的梦想 it becomes my dream, too.
你要竞选市议员 我要在你身边支持 You run for city councilman, I stand by your side.
你赢得了竞选 结果现在呢 You win city councilman, now what?
我就应该放弃我所钟爱的舞蹈事业 I'm supposed to give up what I love
成为一个全职的政治家妻子吗 to become a politician's wife?
我还要参加多少晚宴 兰德尔 要吃多久 How many dinners am I supposed to go to, Randall? And how long?
如果市议员还不足以满足你呢 And what if city council isn't enough?
-那然后呢 -那不是我想要的 - What then? - That's not what I want.
不 我最后不能一无所有 我必须拥有 No, I finally have something; I have something
这份我自己都不知道寻觅了多久的事业 that I have been looking for longer than I knew,
而且我绝对不会放弃的 and I am not going to give that up.
这次我决不妥协 I am not going to bend.
这就是问题所在 And that's the problem.
除非我继续妥协不然我们的生活没法正常运行 Our lives don't work unless I'm doing the bending.
没法正常运行 It doesn't.
我们都很清楚这一点 And we both know it.
拜托你别说话 我 No, please. I...
我知道你脑子里在想什么 I can see your mind working
现在你正在搜索最恰当的词语 and-and you looking for the perfect words
来粉饰太平 但我不需要这些 to make this better, and I don't want that.
我不需要 I don't want it.
因为你实在太擅长说服我了 Because you're too good at it.
事实上你这种本领无人能敌 You're unbelievable at it, in fact.
只要你说了恰当的话 And you say the right speech
整个世界都会对你俯首称臣 and have the whole world eating out of your palm.
尤其是我 Me, especially.
不不 我不接受这种观点 贝丝 No. No, I don't accept that, Beth.
我不 我不同意你这种修正主义的历史观 I'm not... I'm not going along with this revisionist history.
修正主义历史观 好吧 Revisionist history? Okay...
好吧 我怎么可能在过去二十年里 Okay, in what universe have I been steamrolling you
一直在随意摆布你呢 for the past 20 years?
我是说 你的整个生活角色 I mean, your whole persona
一直都是由你这个一家之主所决定的 is driven by you being the head of this family.
所以我再问你一遍 到底怎么可能 So I'm-a ask you again: in what ridiculous universe
你只是一个任我随意摆布的局外人呢 are you this wallflower that's just been steamrolled by me?
这可不是我找的漂亮词 贝丝 And these are not my words, Beth.
这可是你的口头禅 This is your M.O.
所以拜托你 拜托你不要为了保护自己 So, please, please do not self-protect
-就把一切都推到我身上 -我没有这么做 - by putting this on me. - That is not what I'm doing.
没这么做才怪 The hell it's not.
我拒绝接受你的指责 I refuse to be blamed for the fact
二十年这么长时间之后你突然觉醒了 that you had your awakening 20 years too late.
在我们结婚的任何时间点上 At any other point in our marriage,
只要你下定决心重拾跳舞事业 if you had decided you wanted to go back to dance,
我都会没有二话 全力地支持你 I would have been nothing but supportive.
那什么时候有机会让我找回我的事业 Oh, so when would I have done that, huh?
你哪次焦虑症发作之后 Between which of your anxiety attacks?
对不起 对不起 I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
我不应该说 我 I shouldn't have s... I...
我不是这个意思 I did not mean...
你要去哪 Where are you going?
费城 To Philly.
因为我现在不想跟你待在这座房子里 'Cause I don't want to be in this house with you right now.
不过我想这对你来说是好消息 Well, it's good news for you, I guess.
我无话可说了 I'm all out of speeches.
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