虽然我跟我姐姐是双胞胎 While my sister and I are twins,
但我们从小就十分不同 we've always been different.
两岁时 我开始阅读书籍 By the age of two, I was reading books.
而米希更想吃了它们 Missy was content to eat them.
五岁时 我已经开始对 By five, I had a healthy appreciation
井井有条的工作环境有所偏爱 for a well-organized work space.
而我姐姐就不是了 My sister, less so.
但这并不代表她没有我所钦佩的特质 Which is not to say she doesn't have qualities I admire.
搞他 搞死他 Get it! Get it!
只是一只蜘蛛罢了 冷静 It's just a spider. Calm down.
它有八条腿跟毒牙 It's got eight legs and fangs.
你让我怎么冷静 I see no reason to be calm.
你弄死它了吗 Did you kill it?
-弄死了 -确定吗 - Yup. - ‭Are you sure?
你说呢 You tell me. ‭
双胞胎之间的羁绊是非常非常深的 The bond between twins is an incredibly close one,
所以当我有机会时 我立刻搬到了 which is why I moved 1,500 miles to California
2400公里外的加州 the first chance I got.
♪ 世上没人比我强壮 ♪ ♪ Nobody else is stronger than I am ♪
♪ 昨天我移了一座山 ♪ ♪ Yesterday I moved a mountain ♪
♪ 我相信我能当你的英雄 ♪ ♪ I bet I could be your hero ♪
♪ 我是个了不起的小家伙 ♪ ♪ I am a mighty little man ♪
少 年
谢尔顿
-你好啊 -你有空吗 - Hello. - You got a minute?
约翰有事情想跟你谈 John has something he wants to talk to you about.
我给你带了水果派呢 I brought you kolaches.
好吃啊 Ooh, yummy.
什么事 So, what's up?
你来问我能不能娶康妮吗 You comin' to me to ask for Connie's hand in marriage?
不是 No.
如果有一天真的要发生了 But if that were to come to pass,
你有权决定并祝福我们的婚姻吗 are you authorized to bless the union?
他刚才胡扯呢 He was joking.
-告诉他吧 -好的 - Tell him. - ‭Okay.
我在大学的一些同事 So, some colleagues of mine at the university
在做有关双胞胎的研究 are doing a research study on twins.
我跟他们说了谢尔顿跟她的姐姐 I told them about Sheldon and his sister,
同事们对他们很感兴趣 and they were most intrigued.
哪种研究啊 Uh, what kind of study?
是要纵向研究 It's a longitudinal investigation
有关环境与基因 of environmental and genetic factors
对于同卵双胞胎的发展认知与其他能力 in the development of cognitive and other capacities
所带来的影响 in pairs of fraternal and identical twins.
你自己要问的 You asked.
天啊 我不知... 我不知道 Well, geez, I don't... I don't know
我要不要让一帮科学家对我孩子动手动脚 if I want some scientists pokin' and proddin' the kids.
不会对你的孩子动手动脚 Oh, but they wouldn't be poked and prodded.
孩子们只需要去回答一些问题 They just have to, you know, answer some questions.
可能解一些谜题 做点测试就行 And maybe some puzzles and tests.
这样好像也不过分 地点呢 That's not too bad. Where is it?
-休斯顿 -过分的地方来了 - Houston. - ‭Oh, it just got bad.
那里... 开车要很久呢 That's... that's a long drive.
会给每小时50元劳务费外加油费与补贴 It does pay $50 an hour plus gas and expenses.
真的吗 Really?
我跟你说一开始就先说这个吧 I told you to start with that.
你听我说 玛丽 最好的地方就是 No. See, Mary, that's the best part--
不会对我们孩子动手动脚 there's no pokin' and proddin'.
而且你也知道谢尔顿有多爱解谜与测试 Plus, you know how much Sheldon loves puzzles and tests.
我也不知道 I'm not sure.
你想想给的钱好了 Think about the money.
一小时给50 一周有个4到5小时 50 bucks an hour, four or five hours a week.
够还每个月房贷了呢 That-That's more than our mortgage.
我知道 我懂 I know, I know.
但谢尔顿已经很在乎 But Sheldon's already self-conscious
自己与别的孩子不同了 about being different from other kids.
我很担心这会影响到他的心 I worry how this might affect him.
你太过度保护他了 他可是坚强如石 You're being too protective. He's a rock.
如石头吗 A rock?
我们养的是同一个孩子吗 Are we raising the same child?
那米希呢 And what about Missy?
那些测验难道不会让她觉得难过 Aren't these tests gonna make her feel bad
知道自己不比谢尔顿聪明吗 that she's not as smart as Sheldon?
我也没谢尔顿聪明啊 I'm not as smart as Sheldon.
但我那也从来没让我难过啊 Doesn't make me feel bad.
而且我们可以把钱存起来 当他们的大学基金 And we could put the money aside for their college education.
这个点好 That's a good point.
是超棒好吗 It's a great point.
不用我说你也知道 时代不一样了 I don't have to tell you, times are changing.
这年头孩子也会补贴家计 Kids are pitching in.
就像演电视剧的那个小童星 Like that Webster kid on TV--
他已经给他家里人赚了多少钱了啊 he's making buckets of money for his parents.
这个嘛... Well...
让他们试一试应该是可以 I suppose we could give it a try.
-这就对了嘛 -我去打给斯特吉斯 - There you go. - I'll call Sturgis,
告诉他我们愿意 tell him we're in.
妈呀 我要艘钓鱼船 Baby, I'm getting a fishing boat.
谢尔顿 米希 我们有个好消息 So, Sheldon, Missy, we got some exciting news.
-小乔治洗澡了吗 -没有 - Georgie took a bath? - ‭No.
为什么没有我的好消息 And how come I don't get exciting news?
这事跟你无关 This isn't about you.
但晚饭后你能去冲个澡吗 But after dinner, why don't you go rinse off?
有什么事 So, what's up? ‭
大学里有几个科学家 Well, a couple of scientists at the college
就是斯特吉斯教授的那个学校 where Dr. Sturgis teaches are doing
在做关于双胞胎的研究 a research study on twins.
他们想见见你们 问你们一些问题 They want to meet you guys, ask you some questions.
天啊 是科学研究呢 Oh, boy, a research study.
他们会让我们做考卷吗 Will they give us written tests?
-应该会吧 -妈呀 - Yeah, I think so. - Oh, boy.
听我说 如果你们不想做我们就不去 Now, you don't have to do this if you don't want to.
这是纯凭个人意愿的 It's purely volunteer.
我不想去 I don't want to do it.
-为什么不想 -他们应该只是想知道 - Why not? ‭- They probably just want to find out
为什么你那么聪明而我只有平均水平 why you're so smart and I'm just average.
平均水平吗 给分标准还真是宽松啊 Average? That's a little generous.
他们为什么不想测试我 Why don't they want to test me?
-小乔治 别闹 -我有空啊 - Georgie, not now. - 'Cause I'm available.
听我说 这周六我们何不去一次 Listen, why don't we just go there this Saturday
看看到底怎么样 and give it a try?
如果你们不喜欢 那我们就不再去了 And if you don't like it, we don't have to do it again.
也可能他们喜欢 我们会一直去 Or they'll love it, and they'll do it till
直到他们18 19岁才结束 they're 18, 19 years old.
我已经喜欢了 I already love it.
-我的乖儿子 -米希呢 - My man. - Missy?
我记得去那里的路上 I believe there might be
有一家冰激凌店呢 a Dairy Queen on the way there.
我能点奥利奥风暴吗 Can I get an Oreo Blizzard?
你猜我怎么想 You know what I think?
我觉得你比他聪明呢 I think you're smarter than him.
东德克萨斯理工 心理学系
索普博士与皮尔森博士 Dr. Thorpe and Dr. Pilson,
你们的研究志愿者已带到 here are your research volunteers,
他们是谢尔顿与米希 Sheldon and Missy.
很高兴见到你们 So nice to meet you.
谢谢你们参加我们的研究 Thank you for participating in our study.
向来十分乐意为更深入了解我提供帮助 Always happy to help advance our understanding of me.
我是为了吃冰激凌才来的 I'm just in it for the Dairy Queen.
好啦 All right.
希望你们俩不会介意在这里等一会儿 Um, if you two wouldn't mind waiting here,
我们想先从跟你们父母与外婆聊聊开始 we'd like to start by talking to your mom, dad, and grandma.
为什么 Why?
只是想稍微先了解一下 Just to get some background information
你们两个的背景资料 on the both of you.
真聪明 记得问我是几岁学会自行上厕所的 Smart. Ask how old I was when I completed potty training.
你绝对不敢相信 You won't believe it.
我会问的 I'll do that.
你可以帮忙照看他们吗 Will you keep an eye on 'em?
我尽量吧 但如果他们想跑 Well, I'll try, but if they start running,
你们有可能再也见不到他们 you may never see them again.
好了吗 Shall we?
这也算在收费时段里的吧 We are on the clock, right?
乔治 George.
这勾起了我的往事啊 Boy, this brings back some memories.
-怎么会 -当我在你年纪的时候 - How come? ‭- Well, when I was your age,
我也曾被带到大学去被人研究 I was also taken to a university to be studied.
是因为他们觉得你绝顶聪明吗 Because they thought you were really smart?
是因为他们觉得我有神经病 Because they thought I was clinically insane.
有这经验的人可不止我呢 And it wasn't just me.
你知道阿尔伯特·爱因斯坦 Did you know that when Albert Einstein
他小的时候 父母也曾担心 was a little boy, his parents worried
他是不是哪里有毛病吗 there was something wrong with him?
是因为他不愿意梳头发吗 Because he couldn't comb his hair?
不 他的一头乱发是他长大后的自我选择 No, that was a choice he made later in life.
是因为在他小的时候 When he was young,
他完完全全不想跟别的小朋友接触 he wanted nothing to do with other children,
而且还常会有极端暴怒 and would often have extreme temper tantrums.
他听起来跟你好像 He sounds like you.
对啊 真是太棒了 I know. Isn't it great?
老实说呢 Well, to be perfectly honest,
谢尔顿的确是一直都不愿意跟同龄孩子玩 Sheldon has always avoided children his own age.
跟他们说说他的暴脾气 Tell 'em about temper tantrums.
他才没有暴脾气 They're not temper tantrums,
他只是想法十分强烈 he just has strong opinions.
是是是 就比如大吼并跺脚 Yeah, like when you yell and stomp your feet,
然后甩门到把门都弄坏了 and slam the door off its hinge.
人家是科学家 你骗不了他们 They're scientists. You can't trick 'em.
至于米希呢 她就完全相反 And, as for Missy, she's just the opposite.
她十分乐意与其他大人小孩相处 Loves to be around people and other kids.
很善于交朋友 Makes friends easy.
她也有暴脾气吗 Does she have temper tantrums as well?
没有 她脾气十分温顺 Nope. She's very even-keeled.
除了她在吃东西的时候 Except for when she's eating.
你要是在她吃羊排时 把手放靠近她脸 You put your hand near her face when she's working on a lamb chop,
她就会咬掉你手指 she will bite off a finger.
我们女儿才不咬人 Our daughter doesn't bite.
看这印子 1986年感恩节咬的 Right here, Thanksgiving, 1986.
在您怀孕期间有过任何不寻常之处吗 Was there anything unusual about your pregnancy?
-没有啊 完全没任何印象 -是吗 - No, not that I remember. - Really?
你哭了大概有足足7个月吧 You cried for, like, seven months.
那是喜悦之泪 Those were tears of joy.
无数个锤在我身上的拳头呢 What about all those times you punched me?
那是爱的小粉拳 Punches of joy.
你们从阿呆夫妇身上是问不出什么的 You're not gonna get much out of Fred and Wilma here.
你们还是开始研究孩子吧 Why don't you just get crackin' on the kids?
好的 谢尔顿 这第一套测试题目呢 Okay, Sheldon, this first battery of tests measures
主要是测试你们的解决问题能力 basic problem-solving abilities.
是考夫曼教育成就测试还是韦氏智力测验 Is the Kaufman test or the Wechsler Intelligence Scale?
你对它们熟悉吗 Are you familiar with those?
说来有点丢人 It's embarrassing,
但我喜欢在上大号时读一点轻松的读物 but I enjoy a little light reading in the bathroom.
好了 你准备好了吗 Okay. Are you ready?
-我会被计时吗 -会 - Will I be timed? - Yes.
太棒了 Fantastic.
好了 米希 Okay, Missy,
我们首先要测试的呢 the first thing we're gonna do is test
是你解决问题的能力 your problem-solving ability.
-好 -你准备好了吗 - Okay. ‭- You ready?
我有一个问题想问 I just have one question.
什么问题 What's that?
你平常都是把头发扎起来的吗 Do you always wear your hair up?
通常上班的时候都会扎 Uh, well, usually at work, yes.
我相信放下来一定很好看 I bet it looks cute down.
谢谢 好啦 Thank you. Okay,
你准备好了吧 you're all set.
会用摄像机录吗 Is that camera gonna be on?
会 Yes.
那你能把它移到另一边吗 Can you move it over to that side?
为什么 Why?
学校的拍照日我唯一学到的一件事 If I've learned one thing from school picture day,
那就是我的脸从另一边拍比较好看 it's that I look better from that side.
行 我去移 Sure, I'll move it.
好啦 Okay...
再近一点 And bring it a little closer.
怎么样 How's that?
-很好 -好了 - Great. ‭- Okay.
-你可以随时开始 -等等 - Whenever you're ready. ‭- Wait.
我牙齿有沾上奥利奥吗 Do I have any Oreos in my teeth?
没有 No.
-可以开始了吗 -还有一个问题 - Ready to start? - One last thing.
你有没有想过用腰带把白大褂束起来 Did you ever think of wearing that white coat with a belt?
-没有 -你应该这么做 - No. ‭- You should.
因为你身材很好 'Cause you have a very nice figure,
但都被白大褂遮住了 and it's lost in there.
都过来看 Hey, check this out.
你有没有看过《亲爱的 我把孩子缩小了》 Did you see Honey, I Shrunk the Kids?
-没有 -你应该看的 - No. ‭- You should.
因为电影里有很多好的科学内容 'Cause there's a lot of good science stuff in it.
"哪辆火车先抵达 Kudos on the question
圣路易斯"这个问题问得好 "Which train gets to St. Louis first?"
我得跟你说个事 I have to tell you something.
不如你先把测试做完 Why don't you finish the test first.
这事等不了 This can't wait.
另外一位医生暗恋你 The other doctor's got a crush on you.
老天爷啊 Oh, dear Lord.
他应该没有吧 I don't... I don't think so.
继续做测试吧 Let's get back to the test.
好吧 Okay.
怎么 你看到什么了吗 Why? What did you see?
你不注意的时候 他盯着你屁股看 When you're not looking, he stares at your tushy.
真的吗 Really?
想想你要是束了腰带会怎么样 Imagine if you wore the belt.
丫头真机灵 Clever girl.
那样会凸显她的屁股 That would accentuate her buttocks.
我看不下去了 换回谢尔顿那边 I can't watch. Switch it back to Sheldon.
哎妈 三段论 Hot dog, syllogisms.
如果所有四方形都是平行四边形 If all squares are parallelograms,
同时所有四方形都是长方形 and all squares are rectangles,
那么有一些平行四边形就是长方形 then some parallelograms are rectangles.
这些测试是给谁做的 小屁孩吗 Who was this test made for, children?
好无聊 换回米希那边 I'm bored. Turn it back to Missy.
换吧 Go ahead.
这个关于火车开往"又土"路易斯的问题不合理 This question about a train going to "S-T" Louis makes no sense.
不会可以乱猜 It's okay to guess.
慢慢来 宝贝 计费表在跑呢 Take your time, baby. The meter's running.
非常感谢各位 Well, thank you all very much.
这是个很好的开始 This was a great start.
谢谢 你们玩得开心吗 Thank you. Did you have fun?
我周六还能做测试 当然爽翻了 I got to take a test on a Saturday, heck yeah!
他就像年轻版的我 除了没穿矫正鞋 He's like a young version of me, but without corrective shoes.
米希 你觉得呢 Missy, what'd you think?
测试还行吧 The tests were just okay,
但我喜欢桑德拉 but I like Sandra.
谢谢你 米希 我也喜欢你 Well, thank you, Missy. I like you, too.
好吧 All right,
我们下周六再见了 we'll see y'all next Saturday.
我们一定来 You bet we will.
老天 乔治 你可要点脸吧 Good God, George, have a little dignity.
你是不是换了发型 Are you doing something different with your hair?
没有啊 怎么了 No, uh, why?
没什么 挺好看的 No reason, just looks nice.
谢谢你 Oh! Thank you.
等会要不要一起去喝一杯 Um, uh, what do you think about maybe stopping for a drink after,
讨论一下测试结果 to discuss the test results?
乐意之至 I would like that.
正点 Oh, yeah.
接着跳 Get down.
我们回来了 We're home.
-你在看什么 -黑人音乐节目《灵魂火车》 - What you watching? - Soul Train.
我也喜欢火车 I like trains.
不是那种火车 呆子 It's not that kind of train, dummy.
那岂不是虚假宣传 Well that seems like false advertising.
《小型船只》
你这性感的小东西 Ooh, you sexy little thing.
乔治 George!
我不喜欢这个测试对谢尔顿产生的影响 I do not like what this study is doing to Sheldon.
你在说什么呢 他玩得很开心啊 What're you talking about? He had a great time.
他回家一路上都在说 All the way home all he could talk about
那个医生认为他有多聪明 这样不健康 is how that doctor thought he was so smart. It's not healthy.
我要是告诉你 我们今天 Would it make you feel any better
赚了多少钱 你会好过些吗 if I told you how much money we made today?
并不会 No, it would not.
三百块 $300.
-真的吗 -现金 - Really? - ‭Cash.
好吧 但仍然 Okay, well, still, I...
我没兴趣利用我家孩子赚钱 I'm not interested in profiting off my children.
老婆 你跟我在这方面很不一样 You see, honey, that's where you and I are very different.
船 Boats.
谢尔顿 你认为 Sheldon, what do you think
这幅画里正发生什么 is happening in this picture?
一周后
很简单 有四只黑猩猩在客厅里 Easy. There are four chimpanzees in a living room.
好 但你认为它们在做什么 Okay, but what can you tell me about them?
它们的行为不像黑猩猩 They're not behaving like chimpanzees.
还有呢 Anything else?
黑猩猩不喝茶 Chimpanzees don't drink tea.
就这么多吗 Is that it?
也可能是咖啡 Well, I suppose it might be coffee,
但它们也不喝咖啡 but they don't drink that either.
它们的肢体语言有什么特别之处吗 Anything interesting about their body language?
没有 No.
他们好像发现他的死穴了 I think they found his kryptonite.
米希 Missy,
你认为这幅画里正发生什么 what do you think is happening in this picture?
沙发上的女猴子 The girl monkey on the couch
正跟男猴子说八卦 is telling the guy monkey a secret.
料一定很猛 因为他在笑 Must be something juicy, 'cause he's smiling.
还有呢 Anything else?
有可能是下流八卦 It might be dirty,
因为这只女猴子 'cause this girl monkey is sending
正把宝宝猴子赶出房间 the kid monkey out of the room.
他不想走 他看起来很难过 He doesn't want to go. He looks sad.
就这么多了吗 Is that all?
沙发上的两只猴子在喝茶 The monkeys on the couch are drinking tea,
所以这是个茶话会 so it's a tea party.
非常好 我们再看看另一幅画 Okay, very good. Let's look at another picture.
我还没说完 画像里的猴子 I'm not done. The monkey in the painting
戴着老女人帽子 is wearing an old lady hat,
她很可能是姥姥猴子 so she's probably a meemaw monkey.
她没参加茶话会 She's not at the party,
所以一定是在玩保龄球或者死了 so she must be bowling or dead.
这一轮米希赢了 Well, Missy won that round.
其实这不是比赛 乔治 It's actually not a contest, George.
这里可是德州 任何事都是比赛 This is Texas. Everything's a contest.
一个女人站在门口 A woman in a doorway.
还有呢 Anything else?
她正用手扶着头 She's holding her head with her hand.
你认为这是什么意思 And what do you think that means?
你不会更想问我火车开往圣路易斯的问题吗 Wouldn't you rather ask me about trains going to St. Louis?
要死了 她很难过 谢尔顿 快回答 Good gravy, she's sad, Sheldon, come on.
她很难过 Oh, she's very upset.
我不知道为什么 I don't know why.
或许因为没人 Oh! Maybe she wasn't invited
邀请她参加猴子家的茶话会 to the tea party at the monkey house.
她还系了腰带 跟你一样 Also, she's wearing a belt, like you are.
干得漂亮 很好看 Nice going. Very cute.
谢谢你 Thank you.
我也很喜欢你的发型 And I'm loving the hair.
一只狮子坐在椅子上 手里拿着一根管子 A lion sitting in a chair, holding a pipe.
很好 Good.
但你觉得他在想什么 But what do you think is on his mind?
我哪知道 或许他正纳闷 How should I know? Maybe he's wondering
自己为什么在为一幅蠢画摆姿势 why he's posing for a silly picture
而不是吃羚羊 instead of eating a gazelle.
还有呢 Anything else?
我们到底在干什么 What exactly are we doing here?
我还以为这个研究 I thought the purpose of this study
是为了搞清楚我有多聪明 was to find out how smart I am.
我们正是在做这个 That's what we're doing,
但人有各种各样的智慧 but there are different kinds of intelligence.
瞎扯淡 Poppycock!
只有一种智慧 There's only one kind of intelligence...
乔治 谢尔顿不开心了 George, Sheldon's getting upset.
我不喜欢这样 I don't like it.
好吧 那我换回米希那边 All right, I'll just change it back to Missy.
你是一位富有洞察力的年轻女士 You are an insightful young lady.
我不知道那是什么意思 不过谢啦 I don't know what that means, but thank you.
就是有领悟力的意思 It means perceptive.
你能看到大部分人忽略的东西 You see things most people miss.
我的名字是米希[忽略] 你自己想想 My name is Missy-- go figure.
你一直是这样的吗 Have you always been that way?
应该是吧 你经常独自一人时 I guess so. I think when you're on your own a lot,
就会擅长发现这些东西 you get good at seeing that kind of stuff.
-真的吗 -我爸常跟我哥玩橄榄球 - Really? - My dad does football with my older brother,
所以他俩是一队的 so they're like a team.
我妈和姥姥把时间都花在操心谢尔顿上 And my mom and meemaw spend all their time fussing over Sheldon,
所以他们仨是一队的 so they're like a team, too.
这么说没人跟你一队了 So no one's on your team?
没有 Nope.
就我一个 It's just me.
天啊 Oh, Lord.
你跟皮尔斯伯里博士到哪一步了 Hey, what's up with you and Dr. Pillsbury?
你是说皮尔森博士 Dr. Pilson?
我不知道你在说什么 I don't know what you're talking about.
你不能说 因为摄像机在拍 Oh. You can't say 'cause we're on camera.
富有洞察力呢 Insightful.
现在开始做饭有点晚了 A little late for me to start cooking.
-不如找个地方停下吃晚饭吧 -真的吗 - Why don't we stop somewhere for dinner. - ‭Really?
五个人吃 有点贵 The five of us? That's kind of pricey.
你宁愿把钱拿来买小渔船吗 Would you rather buy a fishing boat?
你真是大嘴巴 你知道吗 You're a blabbermouth, you know that?
米希 我们要下馆子吃饭 Missy, we're gonna eat in a restaurant.
你想去哪家吃 Where would you like to go?
让我选吗 I get to pick?
为什么不让我选 Why don't I get to pick?
因为这次让你姐姐选 Because your sister's getting to pick.
我们家不是只有你重要 It's not just about you in this house.
你说呢 宝贝 What do you think, baby?
我选 I pick...
红龙虾餐厅 Red Lobster.
没问题 You got it.
我靠 Damn.
日补津贴就这么没了 There goes our per diem.
乔治 你有时间吗 George, you got a minute?
-什么事 -不是找你 - What's up? ‭- Not you,
-找他 -干嘛 - him. ‭- What?
谢尔顿告诉我 我们去那所大学回答问题 Sheldon told me that we get paid to go to that college
是有报酬的 and answer their questions.
是啊 所以呢 Yeah, so?
我想知道我们能赚多少钱 I want to know how much we're making.
为什么 Why?
因为我想要我那份 'Cause I want my fair share.
是吗 Is that so?
你觉得你该分多少 What do you think your fair share is?
一半 Half.
听起来似乎合理 Hm, guess that sounds right.
我们到底能赚多少钱 So how much are we making?
每周七块五 $7.50 a week.
-真的吗 -真的 - Really? ‭- Really.
那我要一半 Well, I want half that.
那是多少 Which is?
等等 Hang on.
谢尔顿 Sheldon!
我们能看《灵魂火车》吗 Can we put on Soul Train?
为什么 Why?
节目里有个女生我想娶她当老婆 There's a girl on there I kind of want to marry.